Thursday, June 21, 2018

SWEAT

I just saw a posting that (forced) the use of the acronym SWEAT to describe athletic success.
I found it lacking.
Here is my proposed definition:

S -Show up on time (and on time is early!)
W- Work with intensity and focus
E- Evaluate your performance, both positively and critically
A- Accountability to yourself and your standards is the ONLY STANDARD THAT MATTERS
T- the TEAM is everything. Connections, sacrifices, success, failure - it's life in a nutshell (or, technically, a 120x75 soccer field, although if you know of a sport that's played in a nutshell the analogy is literal...)

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Keeping the Yule Blog Burning

Walter Russell Mead publishes a Yule Blog at this time every year -- "In particular, I want to blog about Christmas itself and what it means. Somehow my generation decided to leave this part out when we passed down the traditions and the lore we were taught to the next generation.... The Yule blog is a work in progress; each year I try to make it a little clearer, a little more useful, a little less hopelessly inadequate at explaining some of the most important and mysterious truths there are."

Here are some excerpts that have resonated particularly strongly with me this year:

Why talk about faith?
"In the 2016 election, American society had a little foretaste of what political life can look like when the virtues of humility, forbearance, honesty and tolerance begin to fade from our common life. Virtue is the secret lubricant that makes all our institutions work smoothly—and it is the secret glue that holds the social structures on which we all rely in place. The farther America moves from its rich heritage of faith, the less well America will work."

Whatever your faith, however you understand the meaning and purpose of your life, may the next few days be a time of rest, relaxation, and healing reflection for you that brings you closer to that wiser, happier, richer, and more generous self that it’s your hope, your duty, and, with the help of a merciful God, your destiny to become.

It's difficult to define why we feel this is true, but most people believe that it *matters* that we do the right thing: that we bring up our kids well, that we care for our parents as they age, that we remain loyal to our spouses and keep our wedding vows, that we behave fairly in our dealings with other people and that we contribute to the greater good through the way we live our lives.

"God cannot love anybody at all unless He finds a way to deal with the reality that no human being can withstand strict moral scrutiny. He knows the worst things about us and isn’t fooled by our rationalizations and evasions. And He still loves us enough to be born among us and to pay the price for all we have done. Infinite Love ... is not blind; it knows what messes we make of our lives and how we wound and damage others. But even so, God is determined to be with us."

At best, I’m in the state Gertrude Behanna describes in The Late Liz: “Oh Lord, I ain’t what I wanta be. Oh Lord, I ain’t what I oughta be — and Oh Lord, I ain’t what I’m gonna be. But Thanks Lord, I ain’t what I USED TO BE! — Amen.”

But: If only perfect people were allowed to write about faith and morals, nobody will ever say anything on the subject. Parents wouldn’t try to teach their kids right from wrong; teachers wouldn’t try to help students build moral character. No minister, rabbi, imam, or priest would stand before a congregation to preach a sermon.

Society really does depend on the imperfect virtue of its members. Self-restraint and moral behavior, even only realized in part, really are the foundations of liberty. The weaker the hold of virtue on a people, the stronger the state needs to be. When the moral tone of a people declines, bureaucrats and the police are not exempt from the decay of morals. Perhaps a stratum of high-minded elites and civil servants can keep up a moral tone that is significantly higher than the declining standard around them, but lesser officials and the police will reflect societal norms. They will steal; they will abuse their authority; they will manipulate the processes of the state to serve themselves.

Virtue has to be cultivated and developed. Young people have to be persuaded, cajoled, admonished, and, above all, inspired to seek wisdom, self-control, a life of service, and all the other virtues that are necessary for our civil lives as well as for the fullest development of our true selves. Older people have to be reminded of their ideals, encouraged to live up to them, and to continue fighting the good fight through the long years of adulthood and on into the twilight.

All this can only happen if a lot of people who are still fighting their own private moral battles stand up on their hind legs in public and praise those virtues that they have not fully attained. The intellectual, struggling with questions and doubts about the meaning of faith, must share the best case for faith with a wider audience along with those honest struggles—or no one will benefit from a lifetime of study and reflection.